Constance (Connie) M. Bulow was born June 5, 1916 in Elmira NY and went to be with her Lord, Tuesday April 22, 2014, She was 97 years old. Connie was predeceased by her parents, Biajo (Joseph) and Amellia Frisk Lillo, brother; George Lillo, and beloved husband A. Henry (Hank) Bulow. Constance was a devout Catholic and life long member of St. Mary's Church in Elmira, NY. Connie is survived by her daughter, Denise Hepfner, granddaughters Adrianne (Rob) Guardi and their children RJ and Annabelle and Nicole Hepfner (Matthew Pritchard) and her daughter Amellia and son-in-law Frederick Hepfner, Jr. Connie's granddaughters were her pride and joy. She also took on the role of N ana to many family and friends and was the Matriarch of the family. Special "grandchildren" Karen & Mike Byrne and Matthew Burcz. At Connie's request there will be no calling hours. The family will receive friends at St. Mary's Church, 224 Franklin St. Elmira, followed by A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial there at 11:30 AM. Interment will be in Woodlawn Cemetery, Elmira, NY. Family will provide their own flowers and those wishing to may make donations to Denise Hepfner to help defray final expenses ~Guest book may be signed in obituaries at www.olthof.com. Arrangements have been entrusted to Olthof Funeral Home, Inc.