Eleanor Sandra Gray

Age 71, passed away on Saturday April 10, 2010 at Arnot Ogden Medical Center, Elmira, NY. She is survived by her husband, John E. Gray, Sr.; children, Tammy (Frederick) Crissey and John E. (Kelly) Gray, Jr.; grandchildren, Dustin and Ashley Crissey; sister, Sharon (Charles) Lynch; brother, Frederick (Toni) Swayze, lifelong friend, Joyce Hagelberg Robinson also several nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews.Eleanor loved her family dearly, she enjoyed every moment she spent with them and she was always there when they needed her. She was an active Town of Van Etten Historian and member of the Van Etten Historical Center. Eleanor was a member of TOPS club #565, a volunteer at the Van Etten VFW and member of the Van Etten Alumni.It Was Eleanor's request that there be no calling hours. A private Funeral Service will be held at the convenience of her family. Those wishing may make memorials to the Falck Cancer Center 600 Roe Ave. Elmira, NY 14905 in her memory. Arrangements have been entrusted to Olthof Funeral Home, Inc. A 'Candle of Remembrance' may be left for the family in obituaries atwww.olthof.com